Category Archives: Adults

Post Christmas Christmas Post: What a mom wants

Throughout December Paul threatened me with a Snuggie. He swore it would be my only present and I would love it. I assured him that the best thank-you note for a Snuggie would be divorce papers.

Luckily, my real present arrived in an Amazon box where it stayed until I opened it Christmas morning. Somehow the box made me anticipate it more than any wrapping paper could have. It meant books!

Thinking in Pictures: My Life with Autism I was a little thrown by the title of this book until I saw the author’s name: Temple Grandin. Then I remembered an excellent BBC documentary I watched quite a while ago entitled The Woman Who Thinks Like a Cow. It was a very intriguing story of a woman born with severe autism (available on YouTube here and highly recommended) who now has a PhD and a successful career. Paul heard her on NPR and thought I would like the book. I do. Temple Grandin does an excellent job of describing autism from the inside. Her description of sensory sensitivity and sensory overload are eye-opening. I’m sure her suggestions for treatment and therapy will benefit many parents and caretakers of autistic children.

The Ordinary Parent’s Guide to Teaching Reading by Jessie Wise  This is another book I originally checked out at the library. Gracie wants to read so badly and I work with her quite a bit. However, I wanted something a bit more structured to get her on the right track. This book has short lessons that build up her reading skills and it has suggestions for fun activities to help her practice.  The book is set up in such a way that it is easy to skip ahead to the section she needs without any trouble. I’m also using it as a review for Wesley. I like that it is so comprehensive. It starts with letter sounds, builds up to longer letter combinations, and ends with words like “enthusiastically” and “anticipation.”

  A Passion for Nature: The Life of John Muir: Our library has this book and I read about three chapters before I took it back. There were so many passages and quotes that I wanted to highlight or underline that I didn’t want to read through it unless it was mine. That was a year ago. My dear husband remembered and bought it for me. Now I’m ready to get back into it.

After that cornucopia of literature, I was a happy camper, but Paul ran out to the car to get one more present… A heated throw for my shivery little self! Finally winter might be bearable after all. It’s so warm and comfy. It shuts off automatically after 3 hours so I won’t bake myself if I fall asleep under it. Of course now my living area is limited to the radius of the cord until April but that gets me out of doing laundry.  Best Christmas present ever!

Procrastination: My Tools

These three books reside happily in my bookcase and are thoroughly underlined and highlighted. I bought them in reverse order, but the organization book couldn’t help me until I figured out time management and time management was worthless until I could get a handle on my procrastination. All three are excellent resources, but if you have to choose just one, get The Now Habit. It has fantastic insights on why people procrastinate and how to overcome it. It even has a section on dealing with the procrastinator in your life, if you are a person who tries to get some semblance of consistent productivity out of someone who tends puts things off.

The Now Habit: A Strategic Program for Overcoming Procrastination and Enjoying Guilt-Free Play

Time Management from the Inside Out, Second Edition: The Foolproof System for Taking Control of Your Schedule — and Your Life

Organizing from the Inside Out, Second Edition: The Foolproof System For Organizing Your Home, Your Office and Your Life

 I have taken all the great advice from these books and figured out what works best for me. I’ll give you a crash course over the course of the week. Coming up this afternoon: What procrastination meant for me.

I’ll be interspersing these posts with my usual random, silly and interesting bits so as not to bore those of you who are completely in control of your lives. No, no, don’t raise your hands; you might get something thrown at you.

The Lonely Polygamist

I read The Lonely Polygamist: A Novel in the last few days and it was hard to put down. I blame it for my crappy sleeping schedule.  I never would have thought to write a book about polygamy, infidelity, and nuclear bombs, but Brady Udall does a magnificent job of it. He really brings the characters to life and the story goes seamlessly from humor to deep sadness and back.

From a luminous storyteller, a highly anticipated new novel about the American family writ large. Golden Richards, husband to four wives, father to twenty-eight children, is having the mother of all midlife crises. His construction business is failing, his family has grown into an overpopulated mini-dukedom beset with insurrection and rivalry, and he is done in with grief: due to the accidental death of a daughter and the stillbirth of a son, he has come to doubt the capacity of his own heart. Brady Udall, one of our finest American fiction writers, tells a tragicomic story of a deeply faithful man who, crippled by grief and the demands of work and family, becomes entangled in an affair that threatens to destroy his family’s future. Like John Irving and Richard Yates, Udall creates characters that engage us to the fullest as they grapple with the nature of need, love, and belonging.

Beautifully written, keenly observed, and ultimately redemptive, The Lonely Polygamist is an unforgettable story of an American family—with its inevitable dysfunctionality, heartbreak, and comedy—pushed to its outer limits.

-description from the book jacket

Eco-Friendly Architecture: The Solar Residence Complex

The library is such an important part of my life and Paul never gets a chance to go, so I grab books for him when I go. (I also buy him books for Christmas, his birthday, Father’s Day… His nightstand is turning into its own little library. It’s the currency I use to show love, like a cat bringing dead mice.)

This week I picked up 200 Outstanding House Ideas, by Esther Moreno and Bridget Vranckx. He slid it to me during dinner (at 800 pages, it’s not a book you can hand to someone) and said, “Here’s something you’ll be interested in.” Behold:

The Solar Residence Complex in Freiburg, Germany. Designed by Rolf Disch (the architect who also built the Heliotrop house), it was built in 2000 and has won many awards. (picture by daveeza)

It is so brightly painted that some of the pictures almost look like computer-generated models. The 58 homes face south so that the solar panels make the best use of the summer sun, while the winter sun, at a lower angle, warms the houses. These are “plus energy houses” that produce more power than the residents use. The extra electricity is put back into the grid, so there is no on site storage. Each residence makes more than $5,000 a year from surplus power.

In the background is the Sun Ship which is an office/retail space topped with penthouses and even more solar panels.

 Each home has its own green space and the complex is interspersed with paths for bike and foot traffic. (picture by lauren keith)

Below is a story from DW-TV on the complex.

What We’re Reading

Book of the Week:
The Family Kitchen GardenThe Family Kitchen Garden: How to Plant, Grow, and Cook Together, by Karen Liebreich, Jutta Wagner, and Annette Wendland           

This book has all the information you need to start or expand a family garden. The first section is an introduction to gardening that lays out the basic necessities for a garden the whole family can enjoy. The next section has a chapter for each month and lists what to plant, what to harvest, and what get ready. Nearly every month has a recipe for what’s in season and a craft. My favorites are the recipe for do-it-yourself fruit roll-ups and the instructions for building a ladybug/lacewing nesting house.

Other books we’ve enjoyed this week…

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